(Closed) Is it weird not to have a flower girl??

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

We are going to be missing  ring bearer in ours. We hve no little boys!! But plenty of flower girls!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Nope. Not at all. I had 5 ring bearers (all our nephews) and no flower girl. And it was perfect!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I had a flower girl and junior bridesmaid, but no ringbearer.  I don’t think anyone will notice.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nahhhh! I’m sorry it fell through ๐Ÿ™ but don’t fret!! I think it’s all about what you want and I really don’t think anyone will care. We don’t have any junior BMs, nor do we have a flower girl or ring bearer and we are having a pretty big wedding. There just weren’t any small children amongst our close family or friends to ask so o well!

Post # 7
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Many weddings do not have a flower girl or a ring bearer.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I’ve never actually been to a wedding with either a ring bearer or flower girl -It must not be common here at all.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Not weird at all…we’re only having a ring-bearer at ours, and that’s only if he’s in the mood lol

Post # 12
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Blushing bee

So for those of you that don’t have a ring bearer do you just designate that to another flower girl? I will have three flower girls 2, 3, and 4 yrs old and a junior bridesmaid. It would be between the 2 year old and junior bridesmaid. The 3 and four year old would just fight that one got to do it and the other didnt. 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Not weird at all! I’m not having a ring bearer or flower girl. There were no obvious candidates, so Fiance and i just opted not to have them at all. 

Post # 14
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Honey bee

 not weird at all!  normal i think.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I don’t know any little girls, and FI’s nephews are super shy (refused to walk down the aisle at FBIL’s wedding last year). No ring bearers, no flower girls, all “grown ups”

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We didn’t have one.

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