(Closed) Is it weird that I am not nervous?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think it’s fantastic that you’re not nervous! I have no idea of how I will feel. If I do get nervous it will probably be because of the amounts of people staring at me all day. I love being the center of attention when I’m on a stage as a different character. When it’s just me in front of people….agghhh I hate it! Not to mention I’m clumsy. My Fiance and I keep making joking bets on how quickly I’ll trip over my dress.

I think it’s normal for people to ask that. I know in the past I’ve asked that just to kind of get a feel for how people react differently to the same situation. I’m sure that you’ll be just fine the day before! If anything you’ll probably just be too excited to sleep!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I wasn’t nervous either… I had planned well, and there was nothing to fret over.

Oh, except the weather.  I was checking the forecast every minutes hoping the heat wave would not materialize.  It did, but everything still worked out well.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

i wasn’t nervous at all either.  i was really excited and was looking forward to it.  i was more anxious about a month before trying to get everything done but the week before, all was done and i was fine.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have two months left and I’m not nervous and don’t expect to get nervous about getting married. Maybe abever all the timing oing smoothly or getting everything done in time, but the closer we get the more comfortable I feel!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MissMarjorie:  Oh my gosh! I hope she was able to laugh about it too then (I’m sure that’s what you meant)! Dancing on that must have been painful if she kept going on a sprained ankle all night. : (

Post # 11
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope, wasnt nervous.  Not really sure what there was to be nervous about. πŸ™‚ Then again I was pretty relaxed the entire engagement and planning.

Post # 12
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

 “Are you nervouS”

my husband and i eloped and had a no fuss wedding on a tropical island and the day before our wedding we had planned a night scuba dive and one of the resort guests walking passed said “are you nervous?”

hubby and i looked at eachother and said “no, its just a night dive – done dozens of them” and she has this weird look on her face and said not that, THE WEDDING. are you NERVOUS about getting MARRIED tomorrow!

opps – we forgot about it to be honest.  another reason why our wedding was so special and relaxed for us

Post # 13
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637 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

how do you do it? πŸ™‚

I always imagine I will be very nervous.  Not with him, but with the whole wedding thing…months of hard work finally paid off…but always worry little things during the day.

 

Post # 15
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1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I was not nervous! It all felt so right and I was so excited. 

I did trip twice, not a big deal my dad cought me and I laughed about it, im sure everybody else did too (we were outside I had a long walk and , tripped over a root or stick and then stepped on my dress, but I kicked the dress out and continued walking) But once I was up next to my groom and the officiant started my legs were trembling till about 1/2 way through.  Thank God I was wearing a long dress πŸ™‚ It was over so fast and It was so exciting!!!  Its a good feeling to not be nervous, dont forget to take it all in πŸ™‚  And after you are annouced MR and MRS make sure to stand there looking out at everyone, take your time becasue it will be the only time you are ever introduced as MR and MRs for the first time!!!

The best advice I got was that “Its your wedding day, enjoy its over fast, whats done is done and there is nothing you can change so take it all in and enjoy, dont worry about a thing!!” At the end of the day you will be married and thats all that matters, everything else on your wedding day is out of your controle πŸ™‚

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I dont think it is weird at all! I wasn’t nervous in the least bit for the reasons you gave, I was going to marry my best friend, my other half, and the man who was perfect for me.

The night before I was talking with my bridemaids before we went to bed and then it hit me…’oh SHIT I’m getting married tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!’ I was just REALLY excited lol!

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