- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
So my church surprised me this week when they said the room in the church basement is only for getting dressed. Basically, we will have to find somewhere else to get ready because we have makeup to do too. My house would be an option, it’s nice and close, but my fiance might be getting ready there. It’s also really small and I have only 1 mirror, so it’s not really practical.
The other option was the hotel room we had reserved, but I’ve changed my mind about that hotel, and have decided to give that room to a friend instead.
I looked around town for a room for our wedding night and found that the skyscraper building in my town rents out apts for corporate housing. They do have 1 night rentals. We looked at the apts this week and they are awesome. We are getting a 2 bedroom apartment on the top floor!
So I was thinking my bridal party, mom, and I could get ready there. But I feel kind of awkward about it. You know, like having your friends and family in the room where you will spend your wedding night. Does that seem weird to anyone else at all? Is there anyway I could set some boundaries with my bridal party members and try to keep them out of the room and bathroom that my fiance and I will use?
I just want our wedding night to be special and would rather not have my friends be all over the room earlier in the day. I don’t want them to mess it up either.
Would it be weird if I just get ready in the bedroom my fiance and I will be using, and my friends can use the other bedroom and bathroom and living room area?
Would you have your friends in your wedding night room at all?