(Closed) Is it weird to only have 1 or 2 bridesmaids?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
7736 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

jolieqe:  Not weird at all. OK I’m in Australia, but I only had two (best friend and sister). My brother in law and his wife had none. If people have more, that’s fine, but there’s nothing wrong with a small number of close friends. The wedding is about the bride and groom, not the bridesmaids.

Post # 3
85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I only want two as well, my Maid/Matron of Honor and one bridesmaid and it works cuz my Fiance is having two also. I was wondering if it’s weird too but the I figured it’s my wedding day and I shouldn’t have extra people standing up beside me for guests perception of what’s normal. Have as little or as many as you want.

Post # 4
1070 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

No, of course not. People do it all the time.

Post # 5
2119 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Nope, this isn’t weird. My sister only had a Maid/Matron of Honor (me) and in no way was this weird. 

Post # 6
3608 posts
Sugar bee

Kate Middleton only had one ( + flowergirsl and page boys). Nothing wierd about that wedding.

Post # 7
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We had no one. It was perfect for us. I dont think it would be wierd at all.

Post # 8
20 posts

I’m only having 2, and one of them is a close male friend! The way I see it is that bridesmaids are there to give the bride moral support, help the bride with her dress, makeup touches, bouquet etc so I think 1-3 bridesmaids are perfect. Some people might have a lot of bridesmaids because they have lots of close friends and don’t want to hurt anybody’s feelings by leaving them out.

I don’t think people will be thinking your wedding party looks ‘weird’, they’ll be there to celebrate you and your new hubby 🙂

Post # 9
303 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - Golf Course

I’m having 2! They are my two closest friends and we are kind of like the 3 musketeers so I have co-maids of honour 🙂

Post # 10
156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

In Ireland and the UK, one or two bridesmaids is totally normal, fwiw.

Post # 11
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Not at all. We are having none!! It will just be the 2 of us up there. 

Post # 12
6824 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I had 2 plus a JR. Bridesmaid or Best Man.  It isn’t a huge deal

Post # 13
4885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Nope! I am only have 2 stand by my side. My sister (MOH), and Future Sister-In-Law (BM). We’re having a small cermony (40 people), and I felt anymore than the two would be too much. Plus, the ceremony is all family, so this also keeps it in the family.

Post # 14
8694 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

last wedding i went to, bride and groom only had their sisters.  so 1 sister for bride, 1 sister for groom.

it was not weird at all.


Post # 15
135 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

No weirdness whatsoever!  We are having none : )

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