(Closed) Is it weird…(TMI)

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Been reading 50 Shades of Gray?

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@LolaMonster:  It is not weird, although sometimes fantasies are best left as just fantasies. A belt could really hurt and kill the mood. But if it is something you really want to try, then I am sure the Fiance would be happy to try it.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

As someone also into that sort of rough play, I have not tried that (yet) but definitely don’t think it’s weird! if it were me, I’d probably bring it up in a sexy way while we were already being intimate, like a ‘hey baby how about…’ sort of thing.

Like a PP said, I think that if he’s already loving being rough with you he’ll totally be up for trying this ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

I feel like that’s something that’s well within the “rough, but not scary” realm. Ha ha I say go for it! I think you could bring it up in casual conversation or in the heat of the moment (though I’d go w/casual, just so there aren’t any surprises). It might be kind of odd to him @ first, but if he sees that you like it, he’ll be all about it, I’m sure.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mars62312:  HAHAHAHA yes!!

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Nout wrong with that…although after a quick experiment we did draw the line at a cane.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Every once in a while I like my SO to put his hand around my neck during sexy time.  Sort of like a light choking.  This was completely my idea.  I was kind of chicken to bring it up, so I mentioned it after I had been drinking a little, so I could “blame it on the alcohol” if he thought it was wierd.  He took it really well & was willing to do it.  I should have felt confident enough to bring it up sober, afterall SO would do anything to please me.  Just bring it up with your guy.  I’m sure he’ll be willing to accommodate you.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Nah, not weird.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t think there is anythign wrong with it.  You like what you like… you might as well give it a try as long as it doesn’t boarder on dangerous!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Nope. Go for it!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Okay, this is a little bit off track but it sorted of reminded me of the scene in Game of thrones.. I hope someone knows what Im talking about!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

No such thing as weird between two consenting adults! ๐Ÿ˜‰

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