(Closed) Is it wrong???

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
898 posts
Busy bee

Although it would be a nice gesture if they had your pictures in mind, I do think it’s a little out of line to ask anyone outside the bridal party to wear a certain thing.

I know that if my brother’s Fiance asked me to wear a certain type of clothing for the sake of her pictures, I might be a little upset. The colors are for the bridal party. If someone else wears it, great, but as long as they don’t look trashy – I think you should let it slide.

Post # 4
112 posts
Blushing bee

I would just let it be. It’s not like the purple dress will be clashing with the black and ivory, right? I told the moms that I just wanted them to feel beautiful in whatever they chose.

Post # 5
1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think it’s not worth the fight.  Since your wedding is in just over 3 months, I think it’s too late, since your families have already started thinking about what they’ll choose to wear.  I might feel differently if you were floating the idea well before they started thinking about it, but I think it’s most important that everyone feels comfortable.

Post # 7
2640 posts
Sugar bee

I agree, sorry.   Really they won’t be in many pictures.  What 2-3?  And how many of those will you actually put in the photo album?  1?   Let it go.  You have bigger fish to fry.

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