(Closed) Is it wrong?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

if you dont want them there don’t invite them. even if you arent paying for them do you really want them there? 

Everyone there should make you happy and feel loved. If they dont do that they shouldn’t be there. 

Post # 4
Member
12611 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think it’s wrong to ask him to pay for them to attend, but I would talk to him about your concerns before it gets any further.  If you’re paying, you pay for all guests, but you get to select the guests.

Post # 5
Member
7871 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I wouldn’t even give him the option. I suggest you:

1. Tell him you are paying so you control the guest list. His friends will receive invitations, his siblings will not.

2. Tell him the reasons they are not invited (which you have listed here).

3. Tell him that if he wants to have a get together with his siblings, he’s more than welcome to organise one himself.

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