(Closed) is it wrong to be slightly jealous…

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Oh, there is nothing wrong with feelings, they are just that, feelings.  Nothing wrong with letting it out there, sometimes it helps just to say (or type) it to keep ourselves from bursting.   I hope that you will get the TTC results that you are look for soon, sending you baby dust your way.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I think that is a perfectly normal feeling if you are trying or intend to one day!

It’ll be you soon! *hugs*

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

It’s natural to feel a little jealous every now and again!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Sounds normal that you would feel envious.  Just remember that everyone has their own set of problems, and enjoy your freedom WHILE you have it!  😉

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Totally normal.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Trust me – it is totally normal. I have been off birth control for 9 months, and every time someone I know announces they are pregnant or has a baby I am super jealous!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Your feelings are definitely normal! And they aren’t bad. What really matters is how you act. It is normal to feel twinges of jealousy, but if you act out or treat her differently, then that isn’t fair. (Not that you are! Just saying that the feelings are normal– but how you handle those feelings are what is important.)

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Completely normal. I know so many pregnant women now that’s it’s impossible for me not to be jealous. I can’t wait until we go off of birth control! My biggest fear with everyone being pregnant now is that no one’s going to care when we have our children.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I have been there. My fiances older brother just had a baby girl that they talked about aborting. Here me and my fiance are pregnant twice and two miscarriages. So unfair but, i am happy for them and love my little niece. Sometimes i wish we had a little one of our own but, there are times i am glad we can go home and sleep in, or drink and party if we feel up to it and do what we want.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

Completely normal. We’re not going to be TTC for 4-5 years, I don’t even want a baby right now, and yet I’m still slightly jealous of all the pregnant/newly baby-ed people I know. 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Totally normal. My cousin is 2 years younger than me, married last year, then announced her pregnancy this year just after my engagement, she will be 8 months pregnant at my wedding if she even makes it as she will have to fly to get here for it..I was of course delighted for her but could not help a few pangs of jealousy..but it’s normal..there will always be people jealous of each other for different reasons and it’s usually harmless 🙂 don’t worry and just try to focus on yourself, what you have right now and enjoy the present..the future will come soon enough and bring your own baby bumps no doubt. hugs

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