- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
This has been bothering me for awhile and I’m not sure if we’ve made the right decision….. sorry if its too long.
Rewind back to last Sept. My then bf was invited to his friends wedding without a plus one. He had texted her and asked about the non plus one issue and she replied with “its a small wedding. But I’ll let you know if some spots open up” At first I got sort of offended because I’m not just any girl, Bf and I have been together for over 2 yrs and she knew we were planning on getting engaged. But I just let it go. 2 weeks prior to her wedding, I saw on fb that someone had rsvp’d with a plus one. This got me irritated! I then started to wonder if Bf’s ex(she was one of the BMs) was the one who didn’t want me to go! (she’s a whole other story). Boyfriend or Best Friend went to wedding and saw that there even were several open seats left!
Forward to now. Fiance and I are making a guestlist for our wedding. I noticed he didn’t add his friends name on it and I asked him if he was planning to invite her and he said yes. I finally brought up the situation of how she blatantly left me out of her wedding and I didn’t think it was fair for her to be invited to ours. He agreed and deleted her off our guestlist.
Now I’m starting to think what I did is very immature and mean. I’m not this type of person and I feel so bad for excluding his friends but I can’t help but be upset about the fact that she didn’t think I was important enough to be invited to her wedding. Please help bees! What should I do??