(Closed) Is karma really a b****?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow! This is upsetting! I don’t blame you at all for not wanting her there. As his long-term girlfriend, I really think you should have been invited to come along w/ your then boyfriend! I would feel the same way as you.

While I don’t think it’s mean that you didn’t invite her, I guess you and your Fiance could rethink the decision if you are concerned about it now. Is she the type to go back to her bridesmaid friend and give a report about your wedding? If so, maybe it’s best that she doesn’t come. It’s your and your FI’s special day and you shouldn’t have to have any worries about feeling uncomfortable about any of your guests. On the other hand, I think you would viewed as the bigger person if you do invite her and put the incident from last September in the past. Either way, I wish you the best of luck!

Post # 4
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Jam2012:  HOw has the relationship been since the wedding? Positive or no? I say crunch your numbers and see if you have the room. Maybe a lot of people on the day of her wedding did not come at the last minute? I know the day of our wedding 40 people who RSVPed yes did not show up.

It was bad etiquette on her part to leave you off. I say at this point don’t invite them.


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