- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
My Fiance and I believe that cheating is doing something with another person that your SO would be upset about. Seeing my Fiance kiss another girl would EASILY fall into that category.
There is nothing you can do except move on and bury it deep down inside, knowing you will cut off contact with this person and never cheat again, or, to make yourself feel better, tell your SO what you did and take a chance he will leave.
That being said, when I was in university I kissed a guy I had a crush on after my BF at the time ignored me for a month (that’s another story in itself). Anyways, I hid it for about a month and it drove me insane. I was crying for no reason, seeing him made me feel sick, it was bad. I ended up telling him what I did and we broke up for a few days, then he decided it was just a kiss and we got back together. (I later learned he took me back because he was sleeping with his ex gf, but as I said, another story).