(Closed) Is life supposed to tear you down and break your heart?

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}

Be strong. You will come out the other side.

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Post # 33
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6009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I just wanted to offer my sympathy and encouragement along with everyone else.  You made a really difficult decision to remove yourself from a dangerous and unhappy situation, and I’m proud of you!  Keep you chin up, girl; things will get better.

Post # 34
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60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am so sorry to hear that. I know it’s hard right now, but I hope you feel comforted in knowing that your future husband is out there waiting for you to find him! I have several friends who have cancelled their engagement and all of them (yes, ALL) have found amazing boyfriends/fiancees/husbands soon after and they all view their break-ups as a blessing in disguise. You made a hard but wise choice. Best wishes to you.

Post # 35
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80 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

oooohhh Serenity that is terrible how could he? the other night i had the worst nightmare that my FI was cheating on me and the feeling even though was not true it was horrible i kept questioning him?… bad bad bad! i can not imagine how you feel right now but if you  can see the good in this then it was probably better for you to find out before going through with the wedding … he cant b good for you… you deserve better………….. im sorry you had to go through this!

Post # 36
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450 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I am so sorry to learn of this! It must be an incredibly difficult time for you.

Post # 37
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37 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Serenity – It happened to me as well; engaged for 8 months and then, a week before my birthday I was broken up with over work email.  I too found Weddingbee so hard to leave b/c of how supportive everyone is.  You may have to take a little time off because everyone else’s "happy" might hurt.  But we’re all here for you.  Trust me, from experience, this happened for a reason.  You absolutely will not see it now, but I learned so much because you are forced to go nowhere but up.  I promise you will find the one you are supposed to, when you least expect it.  Don’t look for the next thing, get yourself back.  ((((((hugs))))))

Post # 39
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry, but I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself and leaving.  I’m glad you are getting deposits back, and I hope you use them for something truly fabulous.  Congratulations on your new lease on life, and good work on dodging that bullet!

Post # 40
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2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2019

I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s been said, but I promise that you’ll be happier in the long run. {{{}}}

 

As far as handing around here…I’ve been married for 5 years! 🙂 I’m on here every day! 

Post # 41
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2324 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2019

oops…hanging, not handing. 🙂

Post # 42
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700 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am so sorry!  This echos what others were saying, but I wanted to just tell you that later on, when you see where life is actually taking you, this time will have served a purpose.  You are savy, strong, and still full of hope, and that will take you places. 

You are in my prayers. 

Post # 44
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1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So proud of you to stand up for yourself and get out before you were married to the guy!   Many hugs sent your way!

Post # 45
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18 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2009

Hi Serenity!

First off, no apologies. You did the right thing for you. Love that about yourself.

Second off, your guy (the one your suppose to be with) will be calm natured, will appreciate your thoughts, (he will enjoy talking with you….) He will love you very deeply. Quiet fellow….

And as for the dillweed, no worries, there is a mean woman waiting to school him something fierce!

 

Post # 46
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1481 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Serenity James2009 

 Im so sorry to hear this…I wish you well and Im glad that your a strong woman to walk away from him and not forgive him and go on with the wedding.

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