(Closed) Is my BM gift enough?

posted 9 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Is this a good gift?
    Yes, it's a good mix of stuff for them and for the wedding : (60 votes)
    98 %
    No, it's all really for the bride, you need to get them something else (recommend below) : (1 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Um you rock. Those are gret gifts especially the real peridot earrings. i think everyone can use all that stuff beyond the wedding, anyways =]

    Post # 4
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    685 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Wow, I’d be a very happy bridesmaid!

    Post # 5
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    333 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Wow… they didn’t have to pay for their dresses or anything and they’re not even going to throw you a shower?  I think those gifts are great.

    Post # 6
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    545 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    Well, even though most of the gifts are you wedding related, they are still pretty practical that they can use them for other occasions.  And the fact that they are not even buying their own dresses nor throwing you a shower, I’d say they are VERY lucky BMs!!!  I think you are a very generous bride – you’ve done more than enough.

    Post # 7
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    677 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    Your gift sounds amazing and thoughtful! You’re awesome!

    Post # 8
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    2725 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Everything sounds great! And the best part is that they don’t have to pay for their dress. That alone would make me very happy.

    Post # 9
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    452 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    um…can i be your BM?……you’ve gone above and beyond…that’s all very sweet of you and your mother!

    Post # 10
    Member
    369 posts
    Helper bee

    Maybe they’ll throw you a surprise shower? I think all the gifts are great. Anything more wouldn’t really be necessary.

    Post # 11
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    689 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    wow, i think that your gifts to your Bridesmaid or Best Man are awesome…like all the other girls said, it is very sweet of you to do that! i’d love to be your Bridesmaid or Best Man..hehe

    Post # 12
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    1022 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    WOW…I think that is more than enough.  While a lot of it is related to the wedding, they didn’t have to pay for anything and a lot of the gifts can be used after the day is over! 

    Post # 13
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    82 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I second the idea that not paying for their dresses is gift enough. Everything is incredibly generous and can definitely be used after the wedding. These are some lucky girls!

    Post # 14
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    1020 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I third the “dresses are gift enough” front. I mean, sure, give them a gift since you appreciate them standing with you at your wedding (your gifts rock, by the way), but you don’t owe them anything – especially since they aren’t paying for anything.

    Post # 15
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    1896 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2009 - St. Thomas of Villanova Church & the F.U.E.L. House

    Wow, what a haul — that’s very generous, and there are some great items in there! 

    Post # 16
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    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    WOW can I be in your wedding?? haha… but seriously…..I hope these girls know how good they’re getting it!  I think you have a nice mix of things that from the sounds of it they’ll definitely be able to use again and again after the wedding.

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