(Closed) Is my husband or the girl out of line?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 166
261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’m responding to the original question.YOUR HUSBAND is out of line. Women need to stop blaming other women for their husband’s poor choices. 

Post # 168
11651 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

bobsgirl2007:  ok honey, I know you’re hurting and you want to get away from the pain. But please do not let him bully you out of your home to a shelter – unless you feel things are not safe. Then of course go. 

He doesn’t want to work on the marriage or even put in the lowest amount of energy to maintain it and now he’s punishing you for calling him on his bs. 

Be proud that you aren’t putting up with his crap. You deserve better! 

Post # 169
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

bobsgirl2007:  I hope this was resolved- I would be upset with him and look at her like the shady bitch she is. At the end of the day she’s a woman and she knows he’s married, she has to know you’re not 100 % okay with this. My dh had an employee he tried to comfort during a break up… next thing you know she’s putting the moves on him and any other guy at work that tried to befriend her. Nipping this in the bud was not fun, but the boundaries in place now make for a better relationship. Good luck!

Post # 170
305 posts
Helper bee

bobsgirl2007:  How are you Bee? I am checking for any updates hoping you are well.

Post # 171
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Everything ok bee? I can one imagine the heartbreak you’re going through. You are worth so much more than this. 

Post # 175
1412 posts
Bumble bee

Based on your new post, I think it’s time to walk away from this guy.

Post # 176
5049 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

“They talked about work, coworkers, work programs, mentor programs, etc.”

Sounds like their common ground is work, I’m not sure why that threatening to you?  I do however agree that it is probably not wise for your husband to be going out drinking with her one on one.

ETA: The comment above is based on your initial post.  I have not had a chance to catch up on 12 pages worth of feedback.

Alright, I’ve read enough.  He is claiming to be “wingman”.  That alone is inappropiate and has crossed a line. He is too involved with this woman and needs to cut off all contact.  He sounds like a complete jerk.  Time to get your ducks in a row.

Post # 177
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

bobsgirl2007 :  Whats happened over the past 9 months? Is he still talking to her? Does he still say he isn’t sure he loves you?

Post # 180
292 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

bobsgirl2007 :  



Your husband is a rotten piece of shit and you need to stop letting him make the decisions in the relationship. I’m glad you moved out, but now you need to MOVE ON AND GET A DIVORCE. Leave him in the dust because he isn’t worth another ounce of your time, effort, or tears.

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