(Closed) Is my husband or the girl out of line?

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 196
5107 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2017

Ummm why is your husband out with another woman,  drinking,  at 2am? Coworker or acquaintance, after work tete-a-tetes would not fly with me. 


Just read your updates. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER. don’t sell yourself short in this life. He wasn’t treating you right and it’s better that this happened now. You’re still so young and have a whole life ahead of you. He wasn’t happy for 9years? BULLSHIT. don’t let him make you feel bad about yourself.  Things will get better over time.

PPS. You need to change your name on the bee! No more bobsgirl! (Puke!)

Post # 197
163 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Also, I’m just wondering if him and that co-worker he was out with until 4am got together after the two of you offically split. Were you right to be suspicious?

Not like that matters anymore, but just looking for some closure to this specific thread. Congrats on your divorce – better days are ahead!  Get the therapy you need and find someone with whom you won’t have this stress and frustration. 

Post # 198
3262 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I promise there are quality dudes out there. Work on you and leaving this in the past. Good luck!

Post # 199
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2018 - Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda

bobsgirl2007 :  HELL NO.  My man doesnt even go out with his guy friends that late, and would NEVER be going out with a woman alone he knows I have uneasy feelings about.  He is trying to get away with as much as he can, id kill him lol

Post # 200
67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2018 - Blue Bay Grand Esmeralda

Just read all your updates- he was out there drinking with other females and clearly flirting with them because he was gettin bored with you- and as soon as you put your foot down, he starts going towards divorce and I have never been happy, but yet failed to ever mention this to you?  This is going to hurt for a long time, but you are going to look back on this one day and say THANK GOD!!

Just get through each day, and stop letting him mess with your head.  Hes evil.

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