is porn a deal breaker? [poll]

posted 2 years ago in Christian
  • poll: Is porn a deal breaker?
    Yes : (76 votes)
    25 %
    No : (184 votes)
    62 %
    It depends - will explain in comments : (39 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 106
    Member
    731 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2017

    jannigirl :  Actually, he could watch people have sex all day and as long as he hasn’t physically inserted his penis into a vagina, he is still technically a virgin.

    if you watch someone get killed in a movie, does that make you a murderer? ………..

     

    Post # 108
    Member
    2395 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    brittnamrogo :  when you have to put “technically” in front of something, you’ve kind of already missed the point. It’s the whole moral & ethical part of “waiting” that you seem to be missiing here. From a Christian standpoint, that “technically” doesn’t mean much. Seeing how far down the road of sin you can go, while still pretending to do good…. Doesn’t fool God. 

    Post # 109
    Member
    93 posts
    Worker bee

    ramengirl :  run, don’t walk, to the nearest exit!  He will never change even if he does, his addiction will rule your life. You’re too good for this

    Post # 110
    Member
    102 posts
    Blushing bee

    For me, and hour a day every day would be a deal breaker. Porn every once in awhile is not a deal breaker for me, but I do not want to see it/hear about it. I always have never once felt like I was being compared or like he was trying to mimic porn so that has helped put my mind at ease as well. To be honest, I don’t think guys think about porn the way women do…they can be very desensitized to it. BUT, the important fact here is that is bothers YOU and you should be able to have an open conversation about that!! 

    Just tell your Boyfriend or Best Friend how it makes you feel, but be sure not to put blame on him, just have the conversation and see where it leads. 🙂 

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