(Closed) Is porn cheating?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Is porn cheating?
    Yes : (19 votes)
    8 %
    No : (205 votes)
    86 %
    Other : (15 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Watching porn isn’t cheating. But. If it becomes an obcession that effects your physical and emotional realtionship then I think it’s a problem.

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think it depends. If your partner is watching porn instead of having sex with you, then there is a problem and essentially he/she is cheating on you with porn. If your partner claims to NOT be watchin it and lies about it, I feel like that is too because they’re hiding it from you. Now if the partner does it and you know about it or doesn’t lie about it and it’s not causing problems then I guess it would be a no.

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I don’t think porn is cheating. If it becomes an issue, I still don’t think it’s considered cheating but I do think it needs to be addressed. 

    Same goes for erotic novels.

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I think it depends on the watching frequency. Like flyawaycricket said, if he’s into porn but not having sex with you there is definitely a problem. 

    Post # 7
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    1021 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    No, it’s not.

    Post # 8
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    506 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I agree, it shouldn’t  take away from your time, not for a second!

    Post # 9
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    8042 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    @apex:  Cheating to me has to involve another person. Porn is pics/video. It is not cheating.

    With that said, porn can be a bad thing if the guy is looking at it more than he is having sex w. you. I think though that it’s pretty normal to look at porn.

    Post # 10
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    10288 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    In no way, shape or form. 

    Post # 11
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    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    No, unless he rather watch porn then have sex with you…then you have yourself a problem.

    Post # 12
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    9483 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    It’s not cheating, but agree with other PPs that if it replaces your sex life/intimacy, then it’s an issue that needs to be addressed.

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    No

    Post # 15
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    895 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I don’t believe watching porn is cheating, but if he/she would rather watch porn than be intimate with their significant other then it’s a problem and needs to be addressed ASAP.

    Post # 16
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    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I think itdepends on the boundaries you set in your relationship…if you absolutely feel it is then I guess it is and i think your SO should respect that. For me it is not. 

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