(Closed) is sending nudes to another person cheating? poll

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: is sending nude pics to an ex considered cheating?
    yes : (391 votes)
    98 %
    no : (8 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 2
    Member
    1591 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    Short answer: yes

    Long answer: fuck yes

    Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

     

    vanessa1359:  um yes. I can’t imagine any other reason you would be sending nude photos of yourself other than for some sex related reason. why is this even a question?

    Post # 6
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

     

    vanessa1359:  put it to him this way. Unless he’s showing his nudes to random people then there is a definite purpose for sharing that kind fo thing. It’s for sexual purposes. If he wouldnt’ be ok with his girlfriend showing her body to someone else in a private way (like a photo sent to a personal phone or email) than he needs to hold himself to the same standards.

    Post # 7
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

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    vanessa1359:  I forget the exact wording, but a long time ago I had heard:

    If it’s something you wouldn’t do while your SO is standing right next to you, then it’s wrong. (I’m sure there might be some leeway in there, like planning a surprise party, but you get the idea)

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

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    vanessa1359:  Well it is not really an unbiased opinion because you are surveying (mostly) women. Surveying men could get you an entirely different response.

    But the fact is that your friend doesn’t think it is cheating, which is fair enough because he gets to decide for himself what his boundaries are. He should be discussing this with his partner whose opinion, other than his own, is the only one that needs to be taken into consideration.

    Post # 11
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

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    j_jaye:  +1

    My opinion doesn’t matter because your friend is not in a relationship with me. Your opinion also doesn’t matter. It is your friend’s boundary to set together with his or her partner. What works for their relationship might not work for me.

    OP if you are trying to get your friend to leave his girlfriend then you need to put it in terms of how your friend is being affected by the girlfriend’s actions, not what the internet says is right or wrong.

    Post # 13
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    216 posts
    Helper bee

    I’m not sure about it being cheating, but there’s definitely something very wrong about it IF they are in an exclusive relationship. Some people prefer/can manage /can cope with ‘open’ partnerships, where it could be acceptable….. (although I personally can’t get my head around it)

    Would be interested to know how he’s justifying it to himself and his relationship? 

     

     

    Post # 14
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    6040 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

     

    vanessa1359:  what was the explanation that she gave for sending nudes? I can’t even come up with a reasonable explanation as for why she would need to send those types of photos if not for a sexual reason. He doesn’t want to leave her. So he’s justifying her actions so that he doesn’t have to deal with leaving her. he needs to have more self worth. poor guy.

    Post # 15
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    3242 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Its so totally cheating. . .if my Darling Husband did that, or caught me doing that. . .divorce papers would be sitting on the kitchen table by 9am of tomorrow with a pen handy.

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