(Closed) Is she after my fiance?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

If she’s never met him, I doubt she’s after him. Maybe she just doesn’t have anything better to talk about!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Some people are just really into others’ relationships, that’s probably all it is

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

What? You have never been asked by a girl if a boyfriend is good in bed? The very first thing I ever get asked is that very question. Yes it’s uncomfortable but next time someone says that just say “The best I’ve ever had”. Or something similar. 

You are reading too much into this, but I’m wondering how long you two have been friends because just going by my own friends I know exactly what they are like and what they would say and do because we have known each other for years. 

And just because she enjoys a party, doesn’t mean she sleeps around.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I never ask my friends if a guy is good in bed, but they have asked me more times than I care to remember. The girl that asked you at college isn’t the girl who asked you recently. Not every girl wants to steal your man so I would just laugh it off and forget about it. And if it turns out that she does want to steal him, you are hanging out with the wrong type of people. 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I wouldn’t read too much into it. I’ve been asked that by people old enough to be my mother!! I doubt she’s trying to steal your fiance – she hasn’t even met him for chrissake! She may think he’s cute, but that certainly doesn’t mean she wants him for herselt

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Umm, no. I’m reading this as she’s your friend & simply interested in your relationship & meeting the man you’ll spend the rest of your life with. Is there a reason why you don’t want her to meet him?

And the thing about whether or not he’s good in bed is just a girly convo thing. Either that, or a joke because he’s italian. Unless she starts coming on to him after she does meet him, you don’t have anything to worry about.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

If you don’t trust her motivations don’t introduce her to him.  I don’t blame you in the least. Trust your intuition if you feel she’s being shady.  There isn’t any reason she needs to meet him, is there? 

Also, since you feel this way about her maybe you should start distancing yourself.  Who needs a friend who makes you feel uncomfortable?

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@Moon86:  You gotta be able to trust your own friends girl! If you can’t, they’re not worth it, Oh, and her marriage sounds lovely.

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