(Closed) Is she right or being unreasonable?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is she being rude?

    Yes

    No

    You’re right not to care

  • Post # 2
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

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    alfalfasprout10518 :  

    No, I think your friend is being over the top. If she’s really worried about the other girl wearing champagne, she can get you a veil or a sash or a button.

    Imo, she’s making a big deal out of nothing, and if the bride doesn’t care, she shouldn’t either.

    Post # 3
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    Busy Beekeeper

    You are right not to care. 

    Post # 4
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Good grief, not a big deal AT ALL, I wore pink to my bachelorette party and everyone else was wearing whatever they wanted. 

    If the bride doesn’t care, no one else should. Really. If it’s that important you be recognized as the bride to be, then like PP said, she can get you a sash or tiara or something. 

    Post # 6
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

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    alfalfasprout10518 :  

    It would not go well if a bride posted: “bachelorette crisis!! My bridesmaid wants to wear champagne to my bachelorette party… CHAMPAGNE!!! Everyone will think SHE’S the bride and not me!! Halp!!”

    Post # 8
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    Champagne isn’t white. No one you will meet out and about knows what your wedding color is. This is pure crazy. 

    Post # 9
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    Helper bee

    I voted wrong. I clicked “She’s being rude” thinking I was talking about your Maid/Matron of Honor and not champagne girl. 

    Post # 10
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2018

    You are 100% right! Just enjoy your party!!

    Post # 11
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    i don’t think it’s a big deal either

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee

    You’re the bride. If you don’t care what color anyone wears, I don’t see why anyone else should. I think your friend is starting unnecessary drama.

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2019

    Your friend is insane. 

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2021

    Well isn’t this just the silliest thing I’ve seen all day!

    Your Maid/Matron of Honor is being ridiculous

    Post # 15
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2019

    Champagne IS a sketchy color. But you are 100% right to not care. If you don’t care, then no one else in the entire world should care. Your maid of honor is nutso.

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