(Closed) Is the Rehearsal Dinner ALWAYS the night before?

posted 9 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’ve been to several RDs that were the Thursday before a Saturday wedding.  I think it’s fine as long people live nearby.

I’m just doing mine the night before b/c the entire bridal party is Out of Town and I didn’t want them to take more time off work.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We had our rehearsal on Thursday, dinner on Friday and wedding on Saturday.  You also don’t have to call it a rehearsal dinner.  You can just call it a welcome dinner or a thank you party or whatever is appropriate for the type of gathering you’re going to be having and the guest life.  I got all kinds of conflicting opinions about “protocol” during my wedding planning process, I eventually just tried to take it in, and then decide what was going to work for us. 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

We’re actually having our rehearsal a few hours before the wedding, but we will be having a dinner the night before. It technically isn’t the rehearsal dinner, b/c there is no rehearsal, but that is what my FIs parents wanted to contribute.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Our rehersal is on the Thursday before the Saturday wedding, our officiant says she likes to do it that way because it’s always such a crazy day on Friday for the brides she tries to do it like that to eliminate stress. I like it! (did I mention it would also be my bday? he he he)

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Mine was the day before by my friends rehearsal dinner is on a Thursday.  It doesnt have to be the day before, you can set it a few days before as long as the important people can be there for it!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

our rehearsal will be on the thursday before since it’s at a restaurant and they usually have other bookings on the friday 🙂

Post # 9
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Newbee

My sister had hers on a Thursday for a Saturday wedding, and it was great.  made for a much more relaxing day before the wedding, so I have chosen to do the same. However, my whole wedding party is local, so you should consider that.

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper

Nope not always. We are planning a Saturday wedding and may be having a Thursday rehearsal. The coordinator at our [possible] reception venue said that Thursday rehearsals cost less and also relieve the stress of the day before the wedding. Additionally, with Friday weddings growing in popularity, some churches/venues are often booked the Friday before a Saturday wedding sometimes.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Mine is Thursday, wedding is Saturday, and on Friday night, we will be assembling all of our real rose centerpieces and bouquets! Crazy but that’s what were doing!

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