(Closed) Is The Timing Right to Ask My Maids?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@felixfelicis:  I asked mine separately. But if you’re all close to each other, asking them together sounds like a great idea!

I don’t see any harm in asking them now, if you know they’re the right girls. There are lots of bridesmaid horror stories, but in my opinion 99% of the time people don’t change when they become bridesmaids, and when you look at it the problem is asking the wrong person. (Or having unrealistic expectations of them, but it sounds like your expectations are modest).

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I don’t think its a problem at all to ask them now. I’m getting married in Dec 2014 and have asked my bridal party. Still unsure of one place so I’m holding off San asking them all in a creative way. I see it as more time to save money for a dress and whatever else 🙂 

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