- 4 years ago
Ceremony is about u and reception is for guests. I m not saying u throw everything u want out of the window but it’s not all about u either. Caring about your guests show class. Even though as a bride, I may luv beautifully decorated venue and stunning dress and shoes, we have spent most on venue, food, alcohol and DJ ( things that will ensure that our guests will have a great time) and less on dress and decor and shoes. I don’t think barbecue style wedding is bad but no alcohol is a bummer. I’ m not telling but I personally will never pick a venue that will not allow alcohol – that’s a big deal for guests. You are free to do what u like but pls don’t be sad or offended if ur guests leave early. Also, if I m going to a wedding, I really don’t care about bubble machine and I don’t expect myself to go fishing or hiking on a wedding. What I mean is those things don’t add any value.