(Closed) Is there a guy that both you and one of your friends have slept with?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 47
480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yes!! My best friend (was Maid/Matron of Honor at our wedding) slept with my DH a few times before I met him.


They weren’t interested in a relationship, but they remained great friends which is how I met him!  There isn’t any weirdness at all and we have no problem joking about it.

Post # 48
176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

yeah in a small town it happens a lot. Don’t mind tho we always find it funny, except for one time my two friends stopped talking to each other for about a year.

Post # 49
1648 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

Yep when I was younger.  He wasn’t a bf for either of us so my friend and I would get together later and laugh about it, sometimes compare notes.  Hey, if guys can do it, why can’t we.  We definitely don’t mess around with serious boyfriends, but a fling, sure why not…

Post # 50
1606 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

i have become friends with my husbands exs, so…yes.

Post # 51
2452 posts
Buzzing bee

@lovelyinside:  No, but my one of my best friends and I kissed the same guy (not at the same time obviously, this happened years apart) and we both agreed that he was a really bad kisser. 

Post # 52
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

haha one of my BFFs in college recommended I sleep with 2 seperate boys she slept with but I never followed through with that. I am good friens with an ex and attended his recent wedding but I am still not sure the bride knows that he and I slept together. I don’t really consider her a friend but we do do couple things ftogether from time to time. 

Post # 53
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@lovelyinside:  My (now ex) best friend has slept with my husband. It happened 6 years ago, 1 year before i ever had anything to do with him, and 3 years before we even started dating. It was just a one-night stand/flirting for a while.

It didnt bother me at all because i actually encouraged her to do it on that night, and they were both horrendously drunk so my DH claims to not remember any of it. They didnt stay friends after, just acquaintances as we all were. I have made it clear to my DH that if they started to hang out i would be uncomfortable given the history, but to be honest he wouldnt do that anyway, and hes such a guys guy he doesnt bother we female friends (he even admitted that every female friend he ever had in the past was because he wanted to sleep with her haha).

Post # 54
582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@lovelyinside:  This is a bit Too Much Information maybe, but I was sleeping with a guy for a few months and didn’t have super strong feelings toward him so it wasn’t a huge deal, but a threesome with my best friend drunkenly happened. We are still best friends, and it never created a problem. Probably because neither of us were emotionally attached to the guy.

Post # 55
2113 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@lovelyinside:  Me and at least one other friend of mine had sex with the same guy, a mutual friend. For me, it was a one-night stand and not a very good one. He wasn’t at the top of his game (that I knew he had because my friend had told me so). However, he really liked her, she wasn’t interested in dating so they were friends with benefits for a while. I don’t remember how it ended, but it did. I didn’t sleep with him for several months afterwards, though.

Post # 56
1348 posts
Bumble bee

Nope, they all live at least a few hours away from me and I don’t think any of my friends have slept with them, but people that I know have… just not my friends, but I wouldn’t care if they did.

Post # 57
60 posts
Worker bee

Yes! An ex cheated on me with a mutual friend (who was in a relationship with another mutual friend at the time). As you might imagine, everyone walked away single 😛

Post # 58
1001 posts
Bumble bee

No, but one of my female friends and I have slept together, and she’s now married to (and sleeping with) another one of my female friends, who has slept with yet another one of my female friends (who has not slept with the one I’ve slept with).  We’re an incestuous group.

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