(Closed) Is there an attribute that your SO has that you’d like to have yourself?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1303 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

lol, My Fiance also has great eyelashes!!  He wont let me put mascara on them 🙁

Personality wise, he is the most practical person I know and doesn’t get riled up about much. Im a drama queen, sigh.

Post # 4
10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m a pretty loving person, but Darling Husband is so generous and genuine, it’s amazing. It’s so charming he can pretty much get whatever he wants or get out of whatever he wants, LOL!!!

Post # 5
1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Gosh, I wish I had his patience and his easy way with people.  He makes friends so easily.

Post # 7
3943 posts
Honey bee

Yes!! I tell him all the time that I wish I had his patience and his ability not to worry about things. I am a worrier-I worry about things that may or may not happen in a year from now (I even drive myself crazy). He calms me down without making me feel like a lunatic.

I also wish I could be more spur of the moment like him.

Post # 8
11391 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010


My husband is a very laid back person & I get stressed out easily sometimes.

Post # 9
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Sweet.Sugar.Rose: ditto! mine is super laid back and doesn’t really get mad at anything. plus he is like a sponge.. he remembers so much.. well maybe it’s selective memory hahaha.. but he is really smart

Post # 10
2262 posts
Buzzing bee

I wish I had his will power for saving money! I just can’t seem to say no when my girls ask me to go out for dinner (which isn’t always expensive, but it adds up!).

@Ryansgirl: My guy also have this crazy drive to finish what he starts, its definitely something I admire about him.

Post # 11
2392 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think he knows everything.  It’s like he’s read every great book, knows tons about econ and math and statistics, is a master computer programmer, knows all of classical history down pat, military technology, everything that’s gone on in the news, classic French films, obscure music. 

He’s also much better with people than me.  I am super brusque and impatient and totally clueless as to reading other people’s emotions and reactions.  He’s the one with the social skills, for sure (unless he’s overusing his boundless knowledge and then he’s just pretentious).

Post # 12
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I wish I could get over being mad/annoyed as quickly as my Darling Husband. It would be nice… but it takes me a long time.

Post # 13
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh gosh, there are seriously so many. He inspires me in many ways : )

Post # 14
13099 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Darling Husband is much more laidback and doesn’t get stressed out about things like I do.  He’s rubbed off on me a little bit but I’m definitely the one who gets stressed out in our relationship.

Post # 15
1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

SO is sooo good with money and saving.  He will definately be in charge of the finances!

Post # 16
11167 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

@Aubergold: Ditto on the amazing THICK eyelashes, not fair at all.

I would love to have my FI’s ability to never take anything personally. He is so anti-drama that nothing gets to him. I wish!

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