- 4 months ago
Tonight it is not the first time I express to my wife that I doesn’t like to eat salmon filet with bones.
I was never good with fish bones and I can easily choke on them. She has seen me choked many times.
The strange part is… although I have expressed to her my preferred option many times, she always seems to ignore it.
More interestingly, she seems to purposely get the middle portion of the salmon filet where there are always hidden bones, while she could have gotten the part towards the tail where it is virtually boneless.
If she doesn’t like the part towards the tail, that’s totally fine by me as I am happy with her choice of food, she is happy to eat whatever she wants.
But all I need in return is my freedom on what not to eat.
During dinner tonight, I tried eating the salmon and almost choked again, then I told her that I will leave the rest of salmon for her.
Right after I told her, she put the rest of the salmon filet onto my plate without saying a word…
I don’t understand what kind of behaviour is that…
While she could have gotten a piece of boneless salmon filet (the part towards the fish tail), she didn’t.
While she can just leave me eating the rest of the food while she take on the rest of the salmon, she didn’t.
It feels like to me she purposely force me to do or take something I dislike, and she does that to prove her power in the relation? Or she actually enjoy watching me suffer?
It may sounds hilarious, but I am actually thinking about ending this relation as this is totally nonsense to me.
Anyone can tell me what’s the logic in my wife’s behavrior?