(Closed) Is there anything about your wedding that you are NOT looking forward to?

posted 9 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Random family drama that I know will happen.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

All those people looking at me.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

ugh- Honeybun- I totally know what you mean.  Like I don’t mind talking in front of people at meetings and such but being the center attention is not my cup of tea.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I was SO not looking forward to the rehearsal.  My Mom and brother don’t speak and that was the first time they saw each other in almost 2 years.  I was really worried about how it would go but they just avoided each other. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

I’m actually not looking forward to waking up that morning. Hopefully everything can be scheduled so I can wake up on my own terms. I sometimes get an upset stomach if I have to wake up too early and not follow my routine, so I’m a little nervous about that.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

To be honest, I am not looking forward to spending all that cash! Granted, it will be what we want, and will be awesome, but I will be sad when I check my savings account balance the day after! ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I am not looking forward to day of stress. I cant afford a day of coordinator… i pray everything comes together.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@Miss Sapphire: exactly. Me too. It’s inevitable…

And then there are the dramatic friends. oy. As the “peacemaker” it might be a bit of a stressful day.

Post # 11
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Honestly the fact that no one from my family will be there at all.  My parents are estranged, and otherwise I’m an only child with no aunts, uncles, or cousins. Also, my grandparents are all deceased.

It’s actually made the whole planning process rather sad.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Drama about children attending (we have 8 nieces and nephews), children throwing fits during vows, children escaping the ‘kids room’ we’re going to set up during the reception, sticky fingers all over my dress b/c parents don’t watch their kids while at weddings.. Sorry, that was a vent! I feel better.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Mine is kinda along the lines of @Miss Sapphire…

having certain family/people at my wedding.

We already are having a small guest list since it’s a Destination Wedding, However, we are still inviting my grandparents and some cousins which I would rather skip for a few reasons:

1)My cousins and aunts/uncles are notorious for RSVPing Yes and never coming (they just did this to my brothers wedding)…this would burn my bridges since we can only invite 50 ppl! and if they said they were coming and didn’t…

2)Grandma is VERY judgemental and has invited herself to stay at the house we are renting and for most of the wedding week. Both FH and my families are drinkers, although we are not, and Grandma will have a lot of drunken action to take in all week.

 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@miss sapphire: I totally turn red and voice cracks when I have to speak at meetings. This is going to be a million times worse. Why am I even doing this to myself???? LOL!!!

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am scared to walk down the aisle. I just know that I am going to have ugly cry face!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Being the center of attention at the reception.  Yargh.

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