(Closed) Is this a serious deal breaker – Craigslist issue

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 136
244 posts
Helper bee

KittyKatz:  SO happy you are finding this out now than later! Thank your stars, girl. It’s a sh*t situation, but you will find the right guy with patience!  Hang in there and definitely leave this one in the past. Beyond the cheating aspect, he was potentially subjecting you to Save-The-Date Cards (if he followed through with the scam and actually got to a woman). Just make sure you get checked out and take care of yourself. I wouldn’t be surprised if he has already done something before! Don’t take his word on it. Good luck!

Post # 137
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

AnonymissPDX:  you all don’t need to worry about OP, she will come back to this forum in a couple more years and post similar thread about the SAME man.

OP, I dont know what it will take you to leave this horrible man. Its up to you to decide if you want a happy life. Or may be you just enjoy the roller coaster ride, who knows.

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 10 months ago by  goldfish2308.
Post # 138
1396 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011


KittyKatz:  Any new updates? How are things going?

Post # 139
442 posts
Helper bee

Still worried… update OP???

Post # 140
730 posts
Busy bee

Just read through the entire thread. This is scary. Hope you’re not posting because you’re busy moving out and getting someplace safe. Please do update.

Post # 141
75 posts
Worker bee

Deal breaker! Adios! Im sure its not his first rodeo. Sorry to say

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 9 months ago by  aprilmb1.
Post # 142
783 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

It’s totally a deal breaker for me, however I like to play devil’s advocate. 

Since it was spam, did you check the original listing? Maybe it was a come pick up this awesome thing post, he responded asking where the poster lived, and he got a spam response. Yeah it’s far fetched, but I’ve sold things on craigslist that require people to pick up and they’ve asked where I live.

Does it link you to the original post? It’s been so long since I did anything with craigslist.


Post # 143
2394 posts
Buzzing bee

I really hope OP comes back and updates us – worried! 

Post # 144
431 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - Winery

goldfish2308:  Sad to say but I agree. Her thread from 3 years ago about him would’ve been enough for me. 

Post # 145
256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

What a horrible excuse for a man. I’m so sorry that you have not been able to find the strength to leave before this, I understand that it’s not always as easy as it seems, but I hope you know that things can only get better from here on out.  Please update us as soon as you can!

Post # 146
22 posts

Is there any updaate OP?  I hope you’re ok??

Post # 147
290 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017


Post # 148
488 posts
Helper bee

Omg. I just read this whole thread to see that it was a year ago. Sigh. 

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