(Closed) Is this a strange fear??

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’d say it’s probably pretty unlikely!

Post # 4
7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

It’s just so unlikely!  Will you have a lot of the same guests as this other wedding? 

Don’t worry about having a strange fear, I am terrified that someone will spill red wine on my dress and that I will secretly resent them forever.


Post # 5
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

My friends wedding was the weekend after mine, she couldn’t come to my wedding because her Fi’s brother was getting married. I will never forget seeing her on her day wearing my dress lol. Oh the money we could have saved if we had shared. Really what were the chances?

Post # 7
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I had the same fear for all the weddings I went to last year =) I think it’s kind of normal

Post # 8
307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I had the same fear!! I went to 3 weddings since buying my dress and each time I pissed bullets I was so worried! Plus I knew that if she did have the same dress, I would never be able to conceal it from Fiance and then he would know what my dress was like! And then if it was the same dress, what if he didn’t like it!?!!   Don’t worry girl, I’ve been there. Thankfully none of the brides had the same dress as me and my wedding is next, so I’m in the clear!

I did see pictures on facebook of my aquaintance’s wedding and she had the same dress as me! Good thing I wasn’t invited to the wedding

Post # 9
6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

highly unlikely! but i saw a post on here recently about a maggie dress where the girl was coming back from her wedding and was at the hotel and there was another bride and groom there and they both had the same dress! they took a pic for the maggie real brides webstie. wish i could remember who it was! chances are really slim though!

Post # 10
856 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Ashley_B:  OMG It is very unlikely BUT it HAPPENED TO ME!!!


I had just bought my dress on a Wednesday (I think?) and then headed out to Massachussets for my Fiances Cousin’s wedding that weekend. I literally gasped when I saw his cousin walk down the aisle in the SAME DRESS I had just bought a few days earlier. At first I was so shocked I didn’t know what to think…So of course during the whole recpetion I am thinking of what to do and then I hear Fiance say “I don’t know if I like her dress” 🙁 

His cousing is not very good looking and has a boy-ish body so the dress really did not look good on her at all because it is a fit and flare. I know fiance just meant it didn’t look good on her after talking about it with  him. Phew!


I still have yet to tell anybody but my mom and sister! I am hoping that if I dont say anything most won’t remember!

Post # 11
1092 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I can’t say I’ve ever had that fear. 

Honestly, though, I wouldn’t probably even realize it if two of my friends wore the same wedding dress.  So even if someone does have the same dress as you, I wouldn’t worry too much about it.

Post # 12
2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I had the same fear when I bought mine…because after I bought it I realized a friend of mine bought hers at the same shop…I didn’t end up going to her wedding which was in Hawaii and I never saw the pics so til this day I don’t know but at this point…don’t care. =)

Post # 13
131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Juliepants:  we have the same wedding date and the same fear! I am PETRIFIED someone will spill a drink on my dress. I am glad I am not the only one!

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