- 8 years ago
- Wedding: January 2000
@allyfally: I’ve been asked to wear white or black to parties but they are casual, fun or themed parties. That’s fine, I shop at thrift stores anyway, so it doesn’t cost much. But if you are having a fairly dressy reception then yes it is a huge imposition for your guests to find something NICE to wear in whatever color you dictate.
That’s outside the boundary of a polite hostess.