(Closed) Is this appropriate or just too strange? re bachelor/bachelorette guest lists

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
714 posts
Busy bee

Sounds good to me. Noone says his (female) friends can’t join him for his bachelor party. Go for it!

Post # 3
805 posts
Busy bee

That makes a lot more sense than the women/men only parties!

Post # 5
714 posts
Busy bee

laceydoilies:  Before I was ever invited to only female bachelorette parties, i actually attended two bachelor parties of male friends of mine. 😀 Even if it’s not all that comon: who cares! They are his friends and I am sure they’ll be happy celebrating with him. So it’s a win-win. You don’t have to feel uneasy for deciding on whether or not to invite them. 

Post # 6
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

laceydoilies:  Too strange for me, but then again my FI and I are in agreement on this kind of thing.

Post # 8
10 posts
  • Wedding: April 2015

Sounds fine to me!  I’ve been wondering the same thing about some of women that are going to be at my wedding, only all my FI’s friends were married before I met him.  I would love to hear how it goes!

Post # 9
710 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

laceydoilies:  it’s totally fine if you and your fiance are on the same page.  It wouldn’t work for me.  I’d rather have a Jack and Jill mutual bachelor/bachelorette party if he or I were inviting members of the opposite sex.  For me it doesn’t sit right knowing that my SO is partying with men and women, but purposely excluding me.  But to each his or her own, as long as you both are okay with it.


Edit: I saw you posted this six months ago, so the topic is over.  Anyway, I just wanted to add a reason why some people might be opposed to having women at their fiance’s bachelor party.  I hope you all had a good time:)

  • This reply was modified 3 years ago by  renierose.

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