(Closed) Is this bride serious?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

What the actual f*ck did I just read? Is that for real? 😨 smh…. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

What!? How does this person have any friends? Sounds like she will be a few short once all is said and done. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I havent asked anything of my 1 and only Maid/Matron of Honor (my sister) or my best friends, much less going that extreme. some people be cra cra.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: A restaurant on the beach

I have an aunt and uncle who invited my family and a few other families out to celebrate my uncles birthday at a restaurant. When the bills came my aunt instructed the waitor to divide up her and her husband’s portion between the guests. She didn’t ask anyone and she didn’t inform people ahead of time that we’d be treating them to dinner. So it isn’t just weddings that make people bat shit crazy. These people have some major balls. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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Gabrielle91:  That is outrageous! Did everyone go along with it?

I get mad enough when going out with friends to celebrate someone’s birthday, that one person sometimes says “oh we’ll treat you” without asking anyone else. Often times I get my friends gifts. I don’t want to pay for a meal on top of already getting them a gift. If i had the money- of course. But I don’t and to not ask. Happens so much.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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Sukii:  I want to know what kind of dirt this woman has on her “friends” to get them to go along with this. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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Sukii:  oh hell no. I would ghost the fuck out of all of them. Bye bye crazies.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2019

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Sukii:  what the frick frack. Hell to the no!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Didn’t the bridesmaid post on her herself a few days ago? 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

If this were a friend of mine, I’d be sitting down with her for a much needed “so have you lost your mind or what?” conversation. 

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

If this were my friend I’d promptly tell her to go to hell the second time she asked something outrageous from me. I tend to give people one chance before I consider their bullshit a major flaw. 

I haven’t asked my MOH/BM for anything yet!

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

This is unbelievable, but not totally surprising for some. 

When I was in my 20’s, I was the Maid/Matron of Honor in a friend’s wedding and she decided that having a limousine to take us from the church to the reception was a MUST HAVE. Only problem, she didn’t have it in the budget to pull it off. She thought nothing of asking the entire bridal party (less her sister who was a bridesmaid) to “pitch in” to pay for the limo. To the extent that she told all of us, “if you don’t pay toward the limo, you can find your own ride to the reception and you cannot ride with us.” Needless to say, we all paid, but can you say TACKY?!

So yeah, there are some entitled people out there who think nothing of “requiring” their friends to financially support their whims. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Have you read some of the bridezilla posts on the bee? I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the girls here read that article and then said ‘This is what bridesmaids are supposed to do for me!!!’.

Anyways, that’s a disgusting way to treat your friends. Makes me sad for them!

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