(Closed) is this common?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry everyone is backing out at the last minute! That sucks! At least you know that those who will be there WANT to be there and love you! 😀 Also, you are not alone! My Bachelorette is next weekend and out of 20 people invited only 2(!!!!) are coming! :_( It’ll be less a party and more of a depression for me.

Post # 4
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1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Aw, girls! I’m so sorry you’re both going through this. Unfortunately, I’m in the same boat. It really blows me away how many good friends I thought I had but yet none of them can be bothered. I just don’t think people have common courtesy these days. Rabbit, you are 100% correct…enjoy your time w/ the people that made the effort and WANT to be there.

Post # 5
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493 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Less than 1/3 of the people I invited to my shower will actually be attending, so I feel your pain!!  I have a hard time not taking it personally, but I know sometimes things come up and not everyone will be able to make it.  I just can’t help but feel like I’m very unimportant to many of the people who have decided not to come.  I unfortunately don’t have any advice for you to cheer you up.. but you can join my pity party if you’d like!

Post # 6
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913 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

That sucks!  I’m sorry – but think of the quality time you will be able to spend w/ thos you will actually be taking part in your day!

My mother invited 75 people for my shower – 65 showed up – 90% was family though :o)

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