(Closed) Is this crazy?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Why does it matter what she does with Joe? Obviously, he’s in your past and will be staying that way. She can shtup whomever she pleases, really. You made your  mistakes with him; she can make hers.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think if she’s just hooking up with him it is a bit weird but shouldn’t turn out to be a big problem.  It could get really awkward if he became her SO and you had to see him though.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Miss Sayrah: Wow.  Given your sister’s pattern, I’d NEVER leaver her alone with your husband.  Frown

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Miss Sayrah: eyuck. No, I was “sorta” talking to my sister’s best guy friend, and that was weird enough for me. I agree with you.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Miss Sayrah: I’d be super upset and weirded out, too! There’s really not a lot you can do, OP, but pray that her and Joe don’t actually get married :(. I’m sorry she’s doing this. 

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yeah sound wierd…I agree with VegasSukie!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would 100% be upset! It has nothing to do with you having feelings for this person, I think its more that your sister doesn’t respect that you’ve been with these people in the past so she should really lay off unless she’s in love with one of them.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I’d be upset! But that has more to do with the fact that my exes are douchebags and my sister could do 100% better…

But yea, that has a little bit of a Springer vibe to me too.

Post # 12
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think its sort of weird when friends dates/hooks up someone after the other has a history with them.  A sister?  Oh man, totally weird in my book.

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

The history with this guy and your husband is definitely making it not cool on her part -especially if it becomes something more serious. Sounds like you should not let your sister know who you dated 🙂

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m actually marrying my sister’s ex. They dated when she was in high school (he’s a year older than her, I’m a year and a half older than him) but she gave me her full blessing so I think that is somewhat different. I think it depends on your comfort level. In our case, he was already a member of our family and the breakup was her idea, not his.

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Um yeah, disturbing. Makes me think of those previews for that movie “The Roommate”.  THere is no reason why she should be continuously going after your ex’es. You should have a talk with her

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