(Closed) Is this dress too sexy for my bridesmaids (open back)?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Does this dress match my dress?


    Yes, but you could do better

    Not really

    Not even a little! Wedding planning is making you crazy!

  • Post # 3
    8679 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I dont think so but people’s opinions are always different so I bet some will say they think so. However, I do think that dress looks almost identical to yours. I’m not sure if anyone can EVER upstage a bride or why someone would think that bc they definitely will not.

    Post # 4
    1709 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    I like your Bridesmaid or Best Man dress selection.  The only thing I would do is to make sure your BMs could wear that dress.  If they are bountiful in the chest area, they may not like the open back (it doesn’t look like you could even wear a strapless bra with that back).

    Also, no one will upstage you; you’re the bride!

    Post # 5
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I’m so loving it!!!!!!!  pretty!! 

    Post # 8
    10354 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I would only worry about thid because bras will be tough to find to go with this. Are any of your BMs large chested? I’m a DD and I know this would be very difficult for me with this particular dress. Also watch out if people have bathing suit tan lines or marks from wearing regular bras earlier in the day. Open back is tricky!

    Post # 9
    4428 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    @LucyLaLa:  your dress is beautiful but the Bridesmaid or Best Man dress i dont like ; ( they dont look right together the different lace and the very similar styles i dont like them.

    Post # 11
    2495 posts
    Buzzing bee

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    @LucyLaLa:  In that case, I think those dresses are a go! I personally don’t like the super matchy-matchy look, but since you do, that Bridesmaid or Best Man dress goes perfectly with your dress.

    Post # 12
    9940 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Hope your girls are okay with not wearing a bra…

    Post # 13
    9048 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I like it if your bridesmaids are comfortable with it.  I’m a size 16, with D cups, which means back rolls and NEEDING a bra.  That would not be attractive.

    Post # 14
    9172 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @LucyLaLa:  The title of your post is different from your poll question. If someone answers no based on the title, meaning “no, it’s not too sexy”, their answer will be misinterpreted as meaning “no, it doesn’t match”. If they say yes, it is too sexy, it’s going to look like they’re saying yes it matches…

    I like the dress and think it does match, but wanted to mention that your poll results may or may not reflect people’s real opinions because there are two different questions being asked.

    Your dress is beautiful, btw. 🙂

    Post # 15
    2424 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I don’t really like it with your dress. It just is a bit too similar to me. If it were short, I would be fine with it, but as is and in that color it’s a bit too bridal for me. I don’t think it’s too sexy though.

    Post # 16
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013 - The Skinner Barn

    @LucyLaLa:  I’m only a C cup and I would not want to wear that dress since it’s impossible to wear a bra. just keep in mind how bra-less bridesmaids will look in photos.

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