(Closed) Is this enough for a "will you be my bridesmaid" thing?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: What do you think?
    the cute card and details enclosures are enough by themselves : (20 votes)
    61 %
    add a couple homemade cookies (I'm known for my cooking & they) : (9 votes)
    27 %
    add a small gift unique to each girl (ideas below) : (2 votes)
    6 %
    add a small gift that will make them think of you (ideas below) : (2 votes)
    6 %
    other described below : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    6741 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @Shkragoldfish:  considering most people don’t do anything to ask, whatever you do i’m sure will be fine 🙂

    Post # 4
    128 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I would maybe add a.necklace or some type of jewelry that each girl could wear to the wedding 🙂

    Post # 5
    430 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’ve been contemplating this myself.  I’m going to send a box with the save the date and a cute card.  The cookies idea is brilliant though, totally using that as well.

    Post # 6
    87 posts
    Worker bee

    @futuremrsk18:  Ha, yeah – I asked over the phone… maybe I should have done something more sweet! So many ideas.

    Post # 7
    2556 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I just sent them each a handmade card — they all loved it and were very surprised.  They probably would have thought they hit the lottery if I sent them gifts!  I also didn’t want them to feel like I was bribing them to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man — so, I figured I’d save the gifts for another time.  I may randomly send them a Bridesmaid or Best Man planner and something else cute in the future.

    Post # 8
    1084 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I voted for the card and the cookies. If you are known for your cookies it seems like a really cute gesture!

    Post # 9
    3638 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Just ringing them and asking would be classed as “enough” anything else is above and beyound the call of duty. So don’t stress! Do with this and perhaps splurge on them after the wedding/close to the wedding as a thank you for all of their help.

    Post # 10
    930 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Most people don’t do anything extra special when they ask their girls, so I think anything you do will be great!  Cute ideas!

    Post # 11
    9952 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I VOTED – CARD (sooo cute) & COOKIES

    Cookies would be particularly awesome if they had a Bridal / Love theme going on, and were iced accordingly.

    Here is some ideas I found doing a quick GOOGLE on – Bridal Cookies – again, sooo sweet (pun intended)

    Hope this helps,


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