(Closed) Is this enough time for RSVPs?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Mail them sooner! Ahh! this stresses me out! LOL

Post # 4
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Yes!  Mail them on March 1st with the rest…. 

Post # 5
5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would mail them just to get them off your hands (it was SUCH a relief to get mine in the mail.. lol)

Our RSVP date was/is for today the 25th & our wedding is April 9th… This gave me more time to get in touch with the stragglers to finalize my list…

getting table seating info the week of the wedding is NOT what I want to be doing! lol

I think your times look great! Should be plenty of time for guests to RSVP

Post # 6
2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Sounds plenty early to me, even early enough for a B list.

Post # 9
5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

@ellabee Oh Oh.. How does the “B” list work? I’m starting to think theat we aren’t going to have anyone at our wedding… with only 10 rsvps back… lol

Post # 11
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I can’t imagine that your friends and family would just straight up FORGET about your wedding. I’d be concerned if that was the case!

Post # 12
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

That is plenty of time for RSVPs.  I pretty much followed the same time as you including Out of Town and international guests.  I will say that I sent the invite just a little bit earlier.  I sent them so the guests got them 2 months before the wedding.  This was good because two came back as not being able to read the address.

Post # 13
646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’d send them out earlier rather than later.

If you’re worried about guests forgetting, you can always send an e-mail to all of your guests with “wedding logistics” info. 🙂

Post # 15
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That timeline sounds right to me.  I cannot Rsvp too early for events because of the FHs job.  If I have to Rsvp over a month before, I usually have to say no unless it is a family event.  I can never guarantee that we will be there.

Post # 16
132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We have to have our final count in to the venue a full month before the wedding so our invitations have already gone out for our May wedding.  If someone would forget about my wedding I don’t think I would want them there anyways.  We only had an A list because we wanted less people there, so all the no’s we get are actually exciting because it means a less crowded room.  I’d say send them out March 1st, that way people have some time to plan.

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