- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Being young and having a long engagement and moving a different place each year has led to many come and go friends. When we first got engaged, of course all my old school-mates wanted to come. When I moved to Kalamazoo, all my co-workers and dorm mates wanted to come. And now Im in SC and only speak to a handful of my classmates from high school, zero from Kalamazoo, and a few down here. I obviously can’t afford to have everyone come, but I do want friends there.
The problem is our families are huge and take up 90% of the guest list (we have cut down and cut down time and time again and its not getting any smaller)
So what do i do? I can’t actually send an invite to everyone?
The ex best friend to whom I can’t stand when her and my Maid/Matron of Honor get together but insists on knowing every little detail during a one day reunion??? The close gf for a month when she was the only one around (and who i speak to seldomly)? Help!
I don’t know if saying “oh yea you can come” the first week of our engagement is an actual “invite” when that was over 2 years ago and I still have 8 months to go.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help!!!