Post # 1
This is really gross, so beware…..
I think my fiance may be a bit too comfortable with me. This is so gross, but when we’re sitting on the couch watching a movie or laying in bed he is tugging on his balls and then smelling his hands, then puts it in my face to smell it. He usually does this after work when he is all sweaty and I just do not understand this behavior. We are in our 30s and he seems to think it’s hilarious even though I tell him it grosses me out and completely turns me off. He just laughs. Maybe he does not care that I now have NO DESIRE to do anything sexual with him after he does that, but I need to know…..do any of your guys do anything like this? Is mine just immature? Why are men such gross pigs at times?
Post # 2
I would be angry that he wasn’t listening when I told him to stop and that it was disgusting.
Post # 3
Um no. Gross! Why would he do that????? I mean we fart around each other and all but putting sweaty, dirty ball smell if your face… hell no! Why does he keep doing it when you tell him to stop?
Post # 4
I would tell him at a different time exactly how you feel, and if he doesn’t respect it there would be consequences.
Post # 5
I’m sure there is a reason that you are with him
Post # 6
Who raised this creature? More importantly, why are you married to this I don’t even know what to call?
Post # 7
palmtree5 : Does he have siblings? Because that’s how you treat your little sister when you’re trying to get under her skin. Does he want you to be his wife, or someone he can bully and torture?
My ex used to do things like that. His favorite move was to wait until I was taking a bath and then come in and poop. He admitted he did it JUST to get a rise out of me. It worked.
I would seriously say, “Look, I am the woman you love and I need you to stop treating me like someone pledging your frat.”
If he doesn’t take you seriously, I think it’s incredibly disrespectful.
Also – gross.
Post # 8
No, that is beyond disgusting. I can’t handle overly gross things so that would be a deal breaker for me.
Post # 9
- Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course
*barf* This is gross but the most concerning part is that he doesn’t seem to be taking your feelings into consideration at all. This might be normal amusing behavior to a teenager but for a man in his 30’s….yea I couldn’t do it with the sweaty ball smell in my face. Disgusting
Post # 10
Its funny. Its the human body, and it can be gross at times, but id personally find it humorous.
Post # 11
He clearly likes his own smell…a lot. If it were me, I would probably throw up on him to make it abundantly clear it Is gross.
Post # 12
I’ve had a similar situation with SO doing something gross – it was never aimed at me though. Even so, I explained very firmly to SO how much it grossed me out and that it would eventually probably kill my sexual attraction to him if he didn’t put a stop to it. He put a stop to it.
I’d be piss af if my SO just ignored me and kept doing the thing that grossed me out. I’d feel disrespected and like he didn’t value our sex life.
Post # 13
- Wedding: San Francisco City Hall
This is not normal/typical guy behavior, at least I have never experienced this. Totally disgusting.
Post # 14
Ew no wayyyy. Me and DH joke about gross things but not if the other was uncomfortable. This is the sort of behavior jocks do in the locker room in high school, not a husband to his wife.
Post # 15
palmtree5 : If he’d rather torment you with his gross smegma & ball-sweat laced hands than ever have oral sex again for the rest of his life, I do have to ask you how old this dude is? Does he wipe his nose boogers on you too? ffs, lol. eww.