Is this guy behavior or is he just immature? Gross!!!

posted 1 month ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1707 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

palmtree5 :  

Um, no.

I would be angry that he wasn’t listening when I told him to stop and that it was disgusting.

Post # 3
3748 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Um no. Gross! Why would he do that????? I mean we fart around each other and all but putting sweaty, dirty ball smell if your face… hell no! Why does he keep doing it when you tell him to stop?

Post # 4
2896 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012


I would tell him at a different time exactly how you feel, and if he doesn’t respect it there would be consequences.

Post # 5
45533 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

 I’m sure there is a reason that you are with him

Post # 6
1796 posts
Buzzing bee

Who raised this creature? More importantly, why are you married to this I don’t even know what to call?

Post # 7
615 posts
Busy bee

palmtree5 :  Does he have siblings? Because that’s how you treat your little sister when you’re trying to get under her skin. Does he want you to be his wife, or someone he can bully and torture? 

My ex used to do things like that. His favorite move was to wait until I was taking a bath and then come in and poop. He admitted he did it JUST to get a rise out of me. It worked.

I would seriously say, “Look, I am the woman you love and I need you to stop treating me like someone pledging your frat.”

If he doesn’t take you seriously, I think it’s incredibly disrespectful. 

Also – gross.

Post # 8
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

No, that is beyond disgusting. I can’t handle overly gross things so that would be a deal breaker for me. 

Post # 9
3678 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

*barf* This is gross but the most concerning part is that he doesn’t seem to be taking your feelings into consideration at all. This might be normal amusing behavior to a teenager but for a man in his 30’s….yea I couldn’t do it with the sweaty ball smell in my face. Disgusting

Post # 10
315 posts
Helper bee

Its funny. Its the human body, and it can be gross at times, but id personally find it humorous. 

Post # 11
1707 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

He clearly likes his own smell…a lot. If it were me, I would probably throw up on him to make it abundantly clear it Is gross. 

Post # 12
1273 posts
Bumble bee

I’ve had a similar situation with SO doing something gross – it was never aimed at me though. Even so, I explained very firmly to SO how much it grossed me out and that it would eventually probably kill my sexual attraction to him if he didn’t put a stop to it. He put a stop to it.  

I’d be piss af if my SO just ignored me and kept doing the thing that grossed me out. I’d feel disrespected and like he didn’t value our sex life. 

Post # 13
4300 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: San Francisco City Hall

This is not normal/typical guy behavior, at least I have never experienced this.  Totally disgusting.

Post # 14
1256 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Ew no wayyyy. Me and DH joke about gross things but not if the other was uncomfortable. This is the sort of behavior jocks do in the locker room in high school, not a husband to his wife.

Post # 15
4568 posts
Honey bee

palmtree5 :  If he’d rather torment you with his gross smegma & ball-sweat laced hands than ever have oral sex again for the rest of his life, I do have to ask you how old this dude is? Does he wipe his nose boogers on you too? ffs, lol. eww. 

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