(Closed) Is this just an innocent crush or something I should be concerned about?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 62
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

hugs

Post # 63
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294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I wouldn’t talk to Kacey. But maybe to him if it’s bother you that much. It would bother me too !! I’d be skeptical.

Post # 64
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@EmilyInIdaho:  Any updates OP? Did you and your Fiance ever sit down and talk about the Kacey issue?

Post # 65
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow, OP.

Non-jealous person here. FH watches porn, has female friends, jokes around with my chick friends, etc. and I have not even had an inkling of jealousy. However, if he acted like your Fiance I would probably flick him in the wanger. That’s really not cool at all and I think you do need to talk to him.

Ignore the bees who do the “you aren’t ready for marriage!” stuff. There is one or two of those in every thread. The fact that you have been calm and took time to plan how you are going to handle the situation shows a great deal of maturity on your part. Not to mention the fact that “high school girls” would have blamed their friend before their boyfriend. The hoodie may not be something that would bother others, but different things effect different people. If my FH went and grabbed a random hoodie from the house I wouldn’t bat an eye, but if he grabbed his favorite hoodie… something that he wore constantly, smelled like him, and/or had sentimental value to him… I’d flip.

 

Post # 66
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2019 - City, State

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@echapman:  Agreed. I feel like the “not ready” label just got slapped on because someone stereotyped hoodies as a “young person” garment only, which is just silly.

Post # 67
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

You totally don’t have to answer this. I just remember your username (because of mine lol) and a thread we both posted on before. Is Kasey the same girl that is your FI’s “BFF?” If so, I think their relationship requires more speculation/investigation than I suggested in that post. It’s easy for me, who has a boy BFF and it’s totally platonic, to give the benefit of the doubt. If it’s a different girl, maybe you need to examine and discuss his series of inappropriate relationships with women.

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