(Closed) Is this mean? Mother’s Day Topic

posted 8 years ago in Holidays
  • poll: What would you do?
    Get another card : (18 votes)
    24 %
    It's not offensive : (9 votes)
    12 %
    Send it anyway...who cares?! : (47 votes)
    64 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Hahahaha I LOVE IT!!! Its a little bitchy but if hallmark makes it then it can’t be that offensive right? I say send it! Did you show it to FI?

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    OMG I am going to go look for that right now. i love it

    Post # 5
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    My advice is to get one that says “Have a Wonderful Mother’s Day” or something generic to that effect. Stay non-commital here and just wish her well. Don’t try to ruffle her feathers, it will not bode well for you.

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I don’t think it’s mean…  like you said, if she’s offended, it doesn’t mean YOU think she’s mean, it means SHE thinks she’s mean…  It’s a mothers day card, I mean there’s not a whole lot of room for accusations with it though if she is the paranoid type she might figure out a way to make anything you say offensive…

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I would get another card.  Only because as much as I would love to send the one you have I am afraid it would stir the pot.  She may go completely balistic.

    I would just tread lightly… at least until the wedding is over… then you can send her a card that says whatever you want…

    It will be interesting to see what she does when your and your Fiance are ready to start a family… she may regret her actions now.

    Post # 8
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    1580 posts
    Bumble bee

    I don’t think it would be a good idea to send that card because of your feelings behind it. I think if you can’t pick out a card in good faith for her, you should have your finace pick one out. It’s his mom, so he should have to pick the card.

    Post # 9
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    hahahahahaha i love it. seriously. but i’m kind of snarky. so don’t take my advice 🙂 

    Post # 10
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    4024 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think its awesome! hahahaha! PERFECT! 😉

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think we might have bought the same card. I had a really hard time with that task as well. When all the cards say thanks for your support, it just didn’t really feel true to our situation. I didn’t even think of the card that wayWink

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Lol I love it; but then again I don’t really have a relationship with my Future Mother-In-Law. I guess maybe Jacgi is right…… he should pick out the card….. lol

    Post # 14
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    2007 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    It IS perfect but I would maybe save it for next year and give her a generic one like fabulouslyanonymous suggested this year. 

    That really is too funny.  I love it!

    Post # 15
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    134 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Bullseye…..get it in the mail before you chicken out.  I think it’s perfection.

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