Is this my dress?!?! Help me say YES

posted 2 weeks ago in Dress
  • poll: Is this THE dress?
    YES! : (120 votes)
    80 %
    I prefer the bottom one you haven’t tried yet : (14 votes)
    9 %
    Keep looking : (16 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 17
    191 posts
    Blushing bee

    IT LOOKS GORGEOUS ON YOU! I am all for plunging necklines and the bodice looks fantastic. The whole thing is sultry with some whimsy in the skirt 🙂 TOTALLY perfect!!!

    Post # 19
    191 posts
    Blushing bee

    chitownyogini :  Oh absolutely! What a beautiful venue!! Definitely the perfect balance of city-chic and little romantic touches, so you’re spot on with the BHLDN dress <3

    Post # 20
    233 posts
    Helper bee

    Wow your venue is perfect too!! Congrats! 

    Post # 21
    115 posts
    Blushing bee

    That dress is STUNNING on you!

    Post # 22
    1290 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2018 - Location

    I much prefer the one you’re wearing to the one in the photo!

    Post # 23
    49 posts
    • Wedding: June 2020 - City, State

    No question, the top one. I have an apt at BHLDN in Bethesda, MD myself on Saturday. That dress is amazing on you!!! 

    Post # 25
    312 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2019 - City, State


    Post # 26
    1788 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2019

    Holy crap that looks stunning on you! You are beautiful and that dress just shows it off! Rock it, girl! 

    Post # 27
    582 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: London, UK

    Do you care about fashions/styles dating? I think the cold shoulder on the 2nd dress will show its era. That being said, I love a cold shoulder and I love that dress, and I personally don’t care about trends, so I would wear it in a heartbeat! BUT you look stunning in the first dress, it really does look perfect. If you can picture yourself wearing it when you get married then I would say it’s the one. But if you will always have the ‘what if’, then you should try the 2nd on for peace of mind 🙂 

    Post # 28
    818 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2019

    I love that dress on you. I went back and forth between a couple dresses. What helped me was trying my finalists on in the same day, back to back. I’d make an appt at bhldn right after your new appointment so you can see how the dresses feel in the same day. I also think it’s ok to take a little time and decide. I found my dream dress, but didn’t buy it until a month or two later. I really think taking a little time helped solidify for me it was the right one. It seems like on here people who jump in and buy when they are not sure can end up buying a second dress or having doubts later.

    Post # 30
    2 posts

    Honestly go with the BHLDN dress because the cold shoulder trend will already be dated by your wedding date. BUT if you could care less about trends and timelessness then pick whatever you like BOTH will look amazing but you really do look amazing in the BHLDN pick. 

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