(Closed) Is this Normal?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Ugoob: I think your issue sounds a lot bigger than ours but on a smaller scale, we had an issue with the company we had contracted for our chairs.  The issue was that the chairs never showed up (this was only for the ceremony) but we got a call the next morning asking why the chairs weren’t there when they came to pick them up later.  We talked about when to take care of the issue but my husband decided to call and handle it when we made a stop on the way to our honeymoon so that it would be out of the way and not something we’d have to worry about later. 

Post # 5
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3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Ugoob: That’s what we did and knowing the situation had been taking care of made us feel a lot better.  We called and complained and they refunded our money within a day or two and apologized profusely.  We didn’t want to know we had to do it later. 

Post # 6
Member
3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Ugoob: That’s what we did and knowing the situation had been taking care of made us feel a lot better.  We called and complained and they refunded our money within a day or two and apologized profusely.  We didn’t want to know we had to do it later. 

Post # 7
Member
5778 posts
Bee Keeper

I think dealing with your feelings when they are fresh and raw is always the best way. It doesn’t mean you have to be a raving maniac or act in a nasty way to get your point across. Get it over with! So sorry you even have to deal with this. 🙁

Post # 8
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4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

@Ugoob: Get it out of the way now so you can enjoy being married that much sooner. If it makes you feel better, have your new (!)HUSBAND(!) do it for you. I read your earlier post, and I know the comment was made to you, which probably makes it so much worse, but I think having your husband handle it will alleviate you of the stress in having to relive the moment, yet you get the satisfaction that the vendor won’t get away with it. The sooner you do it also will lead credibility to the story. Get some statements (written or recorded) from the guests the manager harrassed as proof. This place is in breach of contract, and you were functionally evicted from the premise. Do not do not DO NOT feel badly about rectifying this matter.

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