- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
So my sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor and has been working on planning my bachelorette party. She may not have been super-attentive to the planning before last week because she’s in grad school and was very busy. I know she had sent some feeler emails to my bridesmaids about what we should do and what dates would be good, and she had asked me about kinds of things I’d like to do, whether I’d want to be surprised, etc. Anyway, the wedding is about 4 months away and my summer is filling up FAST. Fiance and I really want to take dance lessons before the wedding and we picked out a class we like but it’s Saturday evenings for six weeks and I didn’t want to book the class if I’d have to miss one for the bachelorette party (especially because I will have to book one for the shower). Anyway, I emailed my sister to ask her about the date and whether it was decided yet (this is the second email in about a week in which I asked her about the date… the other had to do with my wanting to schedule engagement photos). I feel bad bugging her, but I just need to put it on my calendar! She replied and said she’s waiting for a reply from one bridesmaid and that she prodded her again. Now, I’ve known this bridesmaid for 25 years and she is NOT good with replying to emails. Part of me is tempted to text her and say basically “Yo, reply to my sister about the bachelorette party dates! I keep having to bug her about it :)” I know she whould not be offended and would laugh it off. What I don’t know is if it’s overstepping my boundaries and I should just let me sister work this out. What do you guys think?