Post # 1
My fiance’s sister is the one whom gave me their guest list… and when she gave me their guest list she provided a shower guest list, and this was basically every single female they were inviting to the wedding (although, we’re having a 100-110 person wedding, and I do -SOMEWHAT- know some of the people on her “list”)… I just passed the list along to the person throwing it…
But I was wondering, was this bad to use her “shower list”? Because I’m not close to many of the people on it? There’s maybe 8 people that I wouldn’t know who their -name-..
Post # 3
I would take the people off who don’t know you. If they got an invitation to your shower, they’d probably be really confused and think you’re just fishing for gifts.
Post # 4
I agree with PP. I’m having a 110 person wedding and I know all of the women coming well so I invited them all, it only came out to about 40 people though, 25 came- it was great! I think a small shower was really nice!
Post # 5
also, who is paying for the shower? If it’s a fancy shin-dig in a restaurant, then you might want to talk to whoever is paying it, and see if they would appreciate it if you could eliminate some invites. If it’s just in someone’s house then I wouldn’t worry about that.
Also, what tntrav said.
Post # 6
Thanks, the invites are already out. I started thinking about this when I got wind of so many people not RSVPing from my fiance’s side. Now I feel like a fool. I just figured she got married within the past year and gave me the list without me asking, I thought it was how they all are…