(Closed) Is this really happening?

posted 9 years ago in TTC
Post # 92
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh poo πŸ™  I’d definitely wait it out and re-test if AF doesn’t show up!  It’s not over til it’s over!!!

Post # 95
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.Jansen:  Aww I’m so sorry to hear that! πŸ™ I also ditto Sea_bass’ response, sorry for pressuring you into testing! 

I really hope it is still early and you get your BFP this month! It’s your first month trying though, right? If you’re not pregnant this month, enjoy a nice glass of wine and pig out on some comfort food- all the unhealthy stuff you won’t want to eat when you’re preggo! It will happen soon enough for you! πŸ™‚

Post # 97
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.Jansen:  Sweetie! πŸ™ I just saw your updated post. I’m so sorry you’re upset! *BIG HUG*

Honestly, I know this might sound odd to you right now (and others may have different feelings), but for me it DID get easier. I know that might not be what you want to hear at the moment, and honestly I feel in my heart that you will get pregnant soon, BUT if for whatever reason it should take a little while longer than you’d like, just know that it won’t always be this painful each month. I think the thing is that when you first start TTC that’s all of the sudden the only thing you can focus on, and you just feel like “the rest of my life/hobbies be damned!”, but after a few months I think you start to have a more balanced/healthier attitude about it. Hobbies and goals of yours that you had pushed aside start to come back to the forefront and you start to enjoy just living life every day again. 

Of course there will be a rough day here and there, we’ve all had them, and that’s why it’s important when you feel like that to come to the Bee. We’re all here for you and understand what you’re going through! Feeling like you’re on a journey TOGETHER with other women always made me feel better. You’ll share in the joy and tears of other bees, and before you know it YOU’LL be the one posting photos of your babyshower on facebook!

Again, I sincerely hope you feel better soon! *hugs* 

EDIT: LOL nachos and getting liquored up sounds like the best plan I’ve read all day!! πŸ˜€ 

Post # 99
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.Jansen:  Of course! We have all been there. You have nothing to feel bad about, it’s hard on all of us, and every month brings about new feelings. That’s amazing that you have 2 daughters, it must be really exciting to ttc again! Haha not that I have personal experience, but I can only imagine 2 daughters must be quite the handful past the age of 10! It’ll be cute to have a newborn again πŸ˜‰ Maybe you’ll have a boy? πŸ˜€ Yep, just take your time! I think it only seems like a long time when you’re actively ttc, soon enough you’ll be preggo again πŸ™‚ 

All that being said- it’s not over till it’s over, and you’re not out yet! Keep us updated, I hope shark week doesn’t arrive! πŸ™‚

Post # 101
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.Jansen:  WOW you are one strong cookie..if that was me, i will be testing every 5 min…lol…jk…i will keep my fingers crossed for you….this is so exciting! good luck :))

Post # 103
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Mrs.Jansen:  Love reading this now that you got your BFP >_<

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