(Closed) Is this really my day?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh no!  What’s wrong?  What happened!?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh no…..

I am so sorry you are feeling this way.

What is going on?

Sometimes it helps to vent.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Yes, it is supposed to be your day, and trying to keep our parents happy helps to make our day a happier one too. It sounds like you are receiving many demands or requests? Hope you’re able to talk it out. *pat pat* 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Cheer up, buttercup!  Can you get a hotel room the night before so you can get ready there?  That way you can still have the surprise!  Who are the 5 house guests if they aren’t people who want to spend the night with you?  Do you mean your BMs don’t want to hang out the night before?  Did they say why?  They might honestly feel like you’ve got so many other people there that they would be more of a burden. 

I’m sure people care and they just are trying not to stress you out more. 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You’re hitting those last month blues. How you’re feeling is totally normal and you have every right to be thinking “UGGGGHOMGWHY!?” It does get better, but don’t be afraid to step up and take a time out. There’s still plenty of time, so you should give yourself one wedding-free day this month. Hold on, you’re almost to the good part. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@abbie017:  Date twin….I’m so over it too! Just not that interested in a lot of it anymore, just want it to be done!

My Maid/Matron of Honor and I are staying together the night before (after RD) at a hotel about an hour away, where just the two of us are getting hair/makeup done in the morning.  She is flying in from AZ and I just knew we wouldn’t get much time together….maybe there is someone traveling far that you might want to spend some extra time with at a hotel the night before??

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think get a hotel, I also made it abdundately clear to dads family who are laid back island folk that no one is staying at my condo. You need to assert you self with the things you truly want with a month left. I assure yu people do care, they probably just dònt care as much as you.

Perhaps take a couple days or this weekend doing things you like with fi or some alone time and forget the wedding for a couple days it sounds like you need a major break!

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’ll stay with you the night before!!! If you want 🙂

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am so, so sorry you’r efeeling so overwhelmed.. my w-day is one day after yours and yes, i am feeling the stress!!!! My mum doesn’t care (much) about the wedding as well..nor my sister..no girlfriend is attending the wedding (family-only) so i am planning everything alone..

On the previous day (YOUR day, no matter what and stick to YOUR dreams), i am leaving for my grandparents and paprents’ house with my two girls. Guess i will be sleeping in my old attick room where i dreamt so many dreams, with my 4 years old nesting against me. EVERYONE will see me getting ready the next day (meaning my side of the family – everyone lives close) and that’s fine because i do want to share with them the joy of being a bride.

Don’t give up..it’s still your wedding. Talk to your Fiance. Ask for help

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