(Closed) Is this rude? Asking Ringbearer

posted 5 months ago in Family
Post # 2
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991 posts
Busy bee

hunting_bride :  I don’t think 6 months away is too last minute for something like this!

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

hunting_bride :  I say go ahead and ask! It’s still 6 months away, it’s not like your 2 weeks out. No need to explain yourself, just ask.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

I think it’s completely fine. Honestly, a ring bearer or flower girl doesn’t need to be asked a year in advance. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

I think you will be fine to ask them! 

Post # 6
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470 posts
Helper bee

No it is not rude, don’t worry. It’s not like they could even take it as him being “second fave kid”, even if they would be the kind of people who misunderstand everything and gets offended all the time, as the first choice was a dog.

Post # 7
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112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

I would ask and I am sure they will be excited!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

hunting_bride :  I had my 3 nieces as my bridesmaids and didn’t ask them until a lot less than 6 months before the wedding because thats a long time for an excited child to wait. As long as they don’t know about the dog idea just tell them you were waiting til closer to the wedding because of his age and how long he would have had to wait if you’d asked earlier

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