(Closed) Is this rude or am I being sensitive??

posted 10 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Rude or not!?

    Yes... Call Miss Manners!

    No... Get over it!

  • Post # 47
    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    I have often asked to look at people’s rings when I see one that is really pretty.  But I would never say comments like “he’s making up for it or something.”  Gosh that is crazy.  But you know wear it with pride. 


    Post # 48
    5385 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I feel that you should rock your ring proudly! Your FH gave it to you and that is all that matters. When someone tries to take your ring off your hand ask them, “What the H-E double hocky sticks is wrong with you”. That will shut them up. Plus, when people ask you if it is real, tell them that  it is rude of them to ask. Just keep it real with them, it is not like they are sparing your feelings.

    Post # 49
    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    It is rude but it won’t stop people from being stupid.  Rock that ring!!!  My ring is on the larger side too and I would never let anyone’s stupid comments inhibit me from wearing my ring.  I love it and love what it stands for!

    Post # 50
    11808 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

    I think it’s a little rude, but I wouldn’t let it bother you.  People obviously think your ring is pretty spectacular to even ask if it is real! 

    Post # 51
    3124 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    Though it’s a rude comment for people to make, at least it’s not a bad place to be.  I would just answer “Yep.” with a bitchy look 😉

    Post # 52
    5282 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    Just say “It’s real & its Spectacular!” like from Seinfeld LOL!!

    Post # 53
    324 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Grabbing your hand or trying it on is rude..but saying “Is it real?” is not in my opinion..I wouldn’t care..I’d take it with a grain of salt. Some women wear fake rings…so it must be so amazing that they have to ask. Not a big deal, just laugh and say yes ! and go about your day ! life is short 🙂 

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