Is this strange or not?

posted 1 year ago in Family
Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

its a little intrusive but i wouldnt read much into it. 

Post # 17
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Sugar Beekeeper

Not asking is different than not giving her the go ahead. Maybe he knew she wanted to do this and didn’t really care. If not, then yes, I think it’s weird. 

Post # 18
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Bee Keeper

zzar45 :  “It’s not like she rocked up to a massive corporation and sneaked past all his coworkers she didn’t know with a box full of plants and photo frames”

LOL that’s what I was picturing at first!  kinda bummed this isn’t how it played out. 

OP, it doesn’t seem weird given that it’s a family business and is also owned by her husband and other son. Why is it bothering you? (asking seriously, not sarcastically) When you say ‘as a wife it kind of made me think she doesn’t think I decorate well’ – do you mean you already decorated his office and she re-did it? or that it should have been ‘your place’ to do the decorating? 

Post # 19
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

It’s a family business, I don’t find it weird.

Post # 20
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Busy bee

BECAUSE it is a family business, I don’t think it’s weird. She probably is a self-appointed decorator in such cases.

If she did ONLY his and NEVER did anyone else’s in their family like her spouse or other son, now that would be weird.

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