(Closed) Is this tacky?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Is it tacky to have a save the date addressing party?
    Yes : (2 votes)
    6 %
    No : (33 votes)
    94 %
  • Post # 3
    3773 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    As long as they know before hand that is what is going on and they are cool with helping, it should be fine. I would makes ure it is clear helping is optional so they know you aren’t expecting them to help.

    Post # 4
    5093 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 2012

    @ieatunicorns:  This.

    So long as they know what’s up, you’re not requiring it, and you’re providing some food, it sounds fine to me!

    Post # 5
    807 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’ve been to one of these before. Pretty much everyone who was there had already been asking how they could help with wedding-related things anyway…it ended up being a lot of fun!

    Post # 6
    2281 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Agree with PP, if people know that it’s a “working” party, that’s fine. Sounds like a nice get together 🙂

    Post # 7
    717 posts
    Busy bee

    totally cool and people are usually fine as long as you feed them 🙂  just give everyone a head’s up and the work will fly by while everyone’s hanging out.  

    Post # 8
    1375 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    As long as, like PPs said, they all know what they are in for, and you are not holding it against anyone who declines the invitation.

    Post # 9
    1043 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Totally 100% agree with PPs, as long as it’s clear what the purpose of the gathering is, it’s not tacky/rude!  I think it sounds kinda fun.  🙂  I’m happy to help my besties in any way needed!

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